Let Go and Accept the Best!

Do you often hold on to things longer than you should? Such as, a relationship or a job because you think that you won't be able to find something better than what you already "have"?

Do you suffer form the belief of scarcity, lack and resignation that there is nothing better than this?

When you finally have the courage to let go, you will discover something superior. Unfailingly, I have found that when I surrender my will to a higher will, everything unfolds better than I could have even imagined.

Case in point, I was feeling a bit cramped in my little beach studio pad with all my clothes and two bikes. I was also feeling a bit unsafe due to some issues that I brought upon myself. In addition to these issues, I had been quite unhappy the last few months with the Debbie Downer neighbor. Finally after many days of minimal sleep I decided it was time to let my precious beach pad go and relocate for peace of mind. However, I was torn. What could be better than living right on the beach in a studio? And where could I go and stay in my price range with the ocean view that I had grown accustomed to?

Well, after only two days of prayer, I discovered a 1 bedroom on the beach with a balcony view of the ocean! And I have the option of spreading the 1st month’s rent over 12 months (with a property manager named Angel who in fact had helped me get the original beach pad in a location next to my current beach pad.) Wow! Wasn't that Amazing??!!

I asked and it was given almost instantaneously! Now I am in a place of rapid expansion. As I prepare to move and take on a new intern and allow this new place of expansion in my residence, business and consciousness to flow with ease and grace, I give many thanks for the higher power that breathed it into being.

As a recommendation, I adsive you to take care in what you ask for because, if your belief is in alignment with having it, you will find it comes to you immediately. If you are not ready to receive it, your fear will sabotage it. If you are ready, you will have to jump into this next stage that you called forth and enjoy the ride.

Seven Tips to Gain Self-Respect

1. R esponsibility. Take responsibililty for your actions and state the ground rules for interactions with yourself. State what you will and won’t accept as a measure of self-respect.

2. E nforcement. Reinforce boundaries so once the ground rules are laid out, it is up to you to enforce them. You are modeling the self-respect you desire from others.

3. S peak up. It is common to feel an aversion to a potentially confrontational interaction however, if you don’t speak the truth your soul will react and for me, I get a physical cough like a choke that no amount of cough medicine will get rid of.

4. P atience. Be patient and believe in yourself and that you will find that divine right job, mate, living situation. Don’t compromise for less than you deserve.

5. E mpower. As you shift from reacting to responding you will find that you feel empowered. Remember, you can’t change anyone else but as you change yourself others will reactions to you will change and shift.

6. C ommunicate. Speaking up for your self worth is vital for your self esteem, even if it seems challenging. Speak your truth and let go of the reaction of the other party. It is about your intention to speak up for yourself. Let go of attachment to the other person’s ability or inability to hear your point of view.

7. T ell the truth. Even if it seems it will hurt. It is better to be direct than resentful.